TACKLING RAPE !!!

"A girl is raped in Mumbai," "A girl is molested in Ashram" are the headlines in almost all medias these days. Searching for reasons? Here I go with some points which I think are responsible,
           

•           Improper psycho-sexual development.
•           Lack of proper sex education.
•           Lower socio-economic status.
•           Individualism.
•           Inefficient judicial system .

         No doubt boys achieve puberty at teen age but the thought comes much earlier. At around 6 years, a boy knows there is something that gives immense pleasure. He starts exploring the secret. Now, whenever he is alone he thinks of the secret and with age he comes to know it's sex. Thinking about sex has become a habit to him now. Mostly it happens in the families of higher and poor socio-economic status. As in both the cases parents are engaged in job and boys get enough time to make a mind that thinks of sex all the time. And here lies the root of improper psycho-sexual development. They should be taken care of atleast upto the age of 16 years.

          In case, he comes to know about sex before puberty, parents should solve the questions arising in his mind. Don't let him solve. Remember, those problems are not from mathematics but problems of life. If he solves , answer will be different. And here is the need for proper sex education.

          Individualism is another reason. Now a child is told to be self dependent as early as possible and get a separate life. He becomes, but bondage among the family members weakens. When there is no value of the family, society does not exist. So, a man can commit a crime (rape) without any self inhibition.

         Even after all these if an incidence occurs, our judicial system proves to be inefficient. Why so much proceedings? I think proceedings should be retrospective. Like, when a complaint has been entered, 

         

• Put the accused behind the bars.
• Make a team to investigate the matter. There should not be any defendant. 
•  Got any clue supporting his crime, increase the punishment.
•  Found guilty, severe sentence. (Accused can appeal in higher court and higher court should follow the same steps)
•  Found innocent, make him free and reward him.

      Last but not the least, good mentality matters. The government is noway responsible for rape but the society is. Get the accused before police reach and then you see, how crimes reduces. Let's together build a safe INDIA.